Category Archives: Escort Abusers

Erhan Ciris — New York, New York

Erhan Ciris came to see me for my full-service prostitution services. He was really nice at first, and attractive, so I thought I had hit the jackpot. While we were having ***, he kept getting more and more aggressive. At some point, he removed the condom and thew it aside. When I protested, he slapped me and began ******* me harder. I thought about screaming, but was too scared, so I just let it happen. He eventually lost his erection before finishing, got dressed in a hurry, and left. This guy is a menace and everyone should know about him.

He is the Founder and CEO of 4D Sight. https://4dsight.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/erhanciris/

https://medium.com/@4dsight

https://www.crunchbase.com/person/erhan-ciris

https://www.signalhire.com/profiles/erhan-ciris%27s-email/139218814

Jacob Oberhaus — Columbus, Ohio

Jacob Vincent Oberhaus is a serial harasser of escorts. He will text explicit things trying to set up an appointment, and when you don’t answer, he’ll call and leave disgusting voicemails about violent things that he plans to do to you. I asked my escort friends about him, and one had seen him in the past. She said that he showed up intoxicated for a session, slapped her while they were *******, and got kicked out.

https://www.facebook.com/jacob.oberhaus

Steven Belcher — Asheville, North Carolina

I’ll never forget the time I had a dominatrix session with Steven Belcher. He booked a long session with me and seemed eager to try new things. But as soon as we started, things went south. He was rude, demanding, and completely disrespectful. He kept trying to take control of the session and ignored all of my instructions. I tried to assert my dominance, but he just laughed it off like it was some kind of joke. It was like he was trying to prove that he was more dominant than me, which is just not how it works in this kind of relationship.

Things only got worse from there. He started making derogatory comments and treating me like I was some kind of object. He even went as far as to hit me without my consent, which is an absolute no-go I was furious and felt violated. I ended the session early and told him that I would never see him again.

It’s clients like him that give the BDSM community a bad name. It’s one thing to want to explore your fantasies and desires, but it’s another thing entirely to disrespect and mistreat professional dominatrices. I hope he learns his lesson and never treats another dominatrix like that again.

He’s a Senior Process Engineer at The Quartz Corp.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/steve-belcher-77bb173/

https://twitter.com/capnstv?s=20

https://www.facebook.com/steven.l.belcher

Colin Whitaker — Baltimore, Maryland

Colin Whitaker came to me for my escorting services and was one of the most disrespectful and entitled men I’ve ever met. He completely ignored my boundaries and treated me like an object to be used for his pleasure. He kept pushing me to do things I was uncomfortable with and acted like it was my job to fulfill all of his fantasies, no matter how degrading or disrespectful. I tried to assert my boundaries and communicate my discomfort, but he just wouldn’t listen. It was incredibly frustrating and demoralizing. I need to find a way to protect myself and ensure that this kind of thing doesn’t happen again.

He’s cheating on his wife Amanda Shapiro Whitaker.

Love trumps all


https://www.facebook.com/amanda.shapiro.14

He’s a Project Manager at Shapiro & Duncan, Inc.

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https://www.facebook.com/ShapiroandDuncan

Bob Ciosek — New York, New York

My escorting session with Bob Ciosek was a complete disaster. He seemed nice enough at first, but as soon as we started, he began to push my boundaries and ignore my requests. Despite my clear communication about what I was and was not comfortable with, he continued to try and push me into doing things I explicitly said I wouldn’t do. It was incredibly frustrating and uncomfortable. I tried to redirect the session and get him back on track, but he just wouldn’t listen. At one point he pushed me up against a wall and threatened to “take” what he wanted if I didn’t comply. Thankfully, he heard someone out in the hallway, got spooked, and left. I feel disrespected and violated. It’s times like this that I wish clients would listen to us when we set boundaries and communicate clearly. It’s not fair that we have to endure this kind of treatment just because we’re providing a service.

He’s the Founder/CEO of World’s Greatest.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobciosek/

https://www.linkedin.com/company/worlds-greatest/

https://www.worldsgreatest.team/

https://medium.com/@bob_6051

https://www.facebook.com/bob.ciosek/photos

Beau Aguon — San Diego, California

Beau Aguon messaged me for *** and agreed to my rate. I’m a transgender woman and he asked me to **** him anally. He said that he had experienced being pegged by dominatrices, so I thought he’d be easy money. He came over and was acting sketchy from the get-go. We gave each other head, which was fine but when it was time to **** him, he asked for it bareback. I don’t do bareback for safety reasons. He got really ******, accused me of having HIV (I don’t), got dressed, and took his money back on his way out. I was really confused and ******. I made it clear in my ad that I don’t do BB, and he’s also married, so you’d think he wouldn’t risk being exposed to anything and then passing it on to his wife. Shameless.

He cheats on his wife Claire Aguon.
https://www.facebook.com/claire.warner.758

He’s the Co-Founder / Head of Strategy & Production at Building Inc.
https://www.linkedin.com/company/buildinginc/

https://www.facebook.com/beauaguon

https://www.linkedin.com/in/beauaguon/

https://about.me/beauaguon

https://www.instagram.com/breaus/

https://www.instagram.com/buildinginc/

Ryan McLaughlin — Chicago, Illinois

As an escort, I’ve had my fair share of bad clients. But there’s one in particular that stands out as the worst experience of my career: Ryan McLaughlin

It started off innocently enough. He was a new client, a wealthy businessman. He seemed nice enough on the phone, and I felt good about the arrangement when he agreed to pay me double my usual rate. I was excited for the opportunity to make some extra cash. But when her arrived, things quickly took a turn for the worse. He was rude, aggressive, and clearly had too much to drink. He started making inappropriate comments and trying to touch me in ways that I had not agreed to. I tried to set boundaries and get him back on track, but he became increasingly aggressive and violent. He pinned me down on my bed and started trying to kiss me, which I had explicitly said was off-limits. He then fingered me aggressively while calling me derogatory names. He got on top of me and ****** me, and it was so rough that I was bleeding from my ***** by the time he was done.

The whole experience was terrifying. I felt trapped and helpless, and I couldn’t wait for it to end. Thankfully, once he was done he left without saying a word, but the whole incident left me shaken and traumatized.

He’s the founder and CEO of Mac Strategies Group.
https://www.macstrategiesgroup.com/our-team/ryan-p-mclaughlin

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-p-mclaughlin-5a277910/

https://www.facebook.com/MacStrategiesGroup

http://voyagechicago.com/interview/meet-ryan-mclaughlin-mac-strategies-group-loop/

Pierre Bollet — New York, New York

Don’t let Pierre Bollet fool you into thinking his a gentleman just because he has a French accent. He came to see me for a prostitution session. Everything seemed normal at first. But then, about halfway through the session, he started getting really aggressive. He was grabbing my arms and pushing me around, and I knew something was wrong. I was terrified. I went limp and let him **** me while hoping he’d finish quickly. When he was done, I tried to get away from him, but he was too strong. I ended up having to use all my strength to fight him off and get out of the room.

He cheats on his wife Annie Guill.
https://www.facebook.com/annie.guill

He’s a general manager for Christofle.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pierreantoinebollet/

https://www.facebook.com/pierreantoine.bollet

Brett Schroeder — Stamford, Connecticut

Brett Schroeder likes to scam escorts and waste their time. He’ll set up appointments that he never makes it to, knowing that it’ll cost the escort time that they could’ve used for a different client. He’ll then harass them by being verbally abusive. One of my friends did see him once and had to kick him out in the middle of being ****** because he was so aggressive and wouldn’t listen to her asking him to stop. Avoid this guy!

He’s the Product Manager NBC Sports Group Technology Business Apps.
https://rocketreach.co/brett-schroeder-email_40676538

https://www.linkedin.com/in/brett-schroeder-55469464/

https://www.facebook.com/brett.schroeder.9809

Udaravi Widanapathirana — Sydney, Australia

Udaravi Widanapathirana comes across as a sensitive, nail-polish-wearing queer person, so they seem like they’ll be an easy escorting client. But they’re actually an abusive, aggressive, boundary-crosser. They’ll push you to do things you’re not comfortable with, and when you try to say no, they’ll threaten to take their money back. I’ve never been so uncomfortable during a session.

They’re the Programming ExecutiveProgramming Executive SXSW Sydney.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/udaravi/?originalSubdomain=au

https://www.instagram.com/udaravi/?hl=en